Homework has hijacked my family

Homework has hijacked my family

Any parent with a school aged child knows about the homework debate.  How much is too much?  Will my child fall behind if he/she doesn't do homework every night?  Should homework displace other, equally important family activities?

Special Needs Kids

For parents of special needs kids, the homework question is an even hotter button issue.  Often it's all these kids can do just to hold it together for the hours they are in class every day, let alone sitting down at home for a couple more hours of school work each night.

Most school boards have guidelines as to how much homework should be assigned, generally based on  grade level.  For example, the Thames Valley District School Board recommends 10 minutes of homework per grade - in other words, grade 8 students would be doing roughly 80 minutes of homework per day.

The trouble is that for kids with a learning disability, or ADHD, or any number of other special needs, 80 minutes of homework a day can translate into a nightly hell session for parents and kids alike.  Add in science projects, book reports and independent study projects and it's easy to understand how any family can feel overwhelmed and burnt out.

Many parents also feel that the Ontario curriculum is so broad that it doesn't allow sufficient time to cover all the work in class and that homework often entails learning new concepts - a teaching task that most parents clearly are not comfortable taking on.

What does the research say?

So what is the real value of homework?  How  essential is it to student success?   A recent Toronto Star article  (http://www.thestar.com/GTA/Education/article/302001) on homework reported:

"While research shows some benefits to homework in grades 7 and 8 and high school, there's scant evidence that it improves student achievement in the younger years, say professors Linda Cameron and Lee Bartel of the Ontario Institute for Studies in Education at the University of Toronto."

Other studies support these findings and bring into question the whole rationale for homework, especially in the early grades.  Simply reading with, or to, young children on a daily basis is frequently cited as the single best way to ensure academic success in later years.

When is it too much?

If the homework routine takes up most of each and every evening/weekend and leaves no time for other equally important family or individual activities, it is clearly too much.  If it is causing significant and prolonged stress for your child, your spouse or you, it is too much.

Handling Homework Overload

For younger children, set your own limits on the amount of homework and make sure there is sufficient playtime, reading time, bath time and general downtime each evening.

If your older child is on an individual education plan, you can ask that the IEP include accommodations/modifications to the amount of homework assigned.  If not on an IEP, you can still set reasonable limits on the amount of time you and your child will devote to homework each night and make sure that your child's teacher is aware so that the absolute essentials are still covered.

For some special needs kids, using a timer or a system of alternating work/break periods is a good strategy, so that 10 minutes of work/concentration is followed by 10 minutes of break, snack, exercise or rest.

For kids in upper grades, another idea is requesting the teacher assign a homework free day one day a week, no homework on weekends or that no major projects be assigned for traditional family times, such as Christmas or March break.

Children need playtime, family time and just plain "down" time every bit as much as they need to hone their academic skills.  Work/school/life balance is important to everyone's mental health, kids included, and should be part of every school's priorities.

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